There's a particular kind of ache that comes with losing someone you love.
It's not just the grief of missing them — it's the uncertainty. The wondering whether they're still.. somewhere. Whether they can feel you missing them. Whether the connection you had is just.. gone now.
Someone brought this question into one of our Friday satsangs, and I could feel the weight behind it. Not as an abstract philosophical question — as something lived. Something tender. Something that matters.
"Can you still feel someone who has passed? Can those who've passed send their love to the ones still here?"
I didn't want to rush past it.
Here's what I shared: existence isn't a collection of separate things that switch on and off. It's one field — one life force — vibrating at different frequencies and expressing itself through different forms. Think of light shining through a colander. Each beam looks individual, separate.. but it's all the same light, from the same source.
When someone leaves the body, they don't disappear. They shift. Energy can't be destroyed — even science agrees on that one. The form changes, but the frequency remains.
The reason so many of us struggle to feel that connection isn't because it's not there. It's because we're looking for it through the mind — through logic, through proof, through the need to understand. And the mind, as brilliant as it is, will block that signal every time. It wasn't built for this kind of knowing.
Going beyond the mind is where the feeling lives. And when you do, you might find that the signs come — just not always in the shape you were expecting.
I go much deeper into all of this in this week's satsang..
Watch the full satsang above.
If you'd like to sit with these questions live, come join us if you'd like to be in the room — I hold a free satsang every Friday inside the Elevate Community. And if you're new here, the 7-Day Inner Work Challenge is a beautiful place to start.
Big love, Dylan